Living by the he said, she said

Why are we so lost in this world? Why is there a time limit or a set time on everything? It's always about what he said or what she said .. but what about what I say? I'm more than just a she. I have a heart that fights with my mind because of what he said or what she said. I have to believe that it takes three months to really know some one. I have to believe that love doesn't exist until you survive six months of infatuation. I have to constantly question what you're thinking, what you meant when you said that and what will happen when I say this. Are we going too fast? Too slow? What's the speed limit anyways? All these rules, why can't we decide? Why? Why is there a code, a book of rules and why do we choose to follow them, to live by them? Why can't we say we'll be who we are together until we decide that doesn't work ... If WE decide.